The only way I think that we (men) are going to be given any chance of being father’s to our children is to have an extremely VIOLENT revolt against ALL FAMILY COURT judges. I wish I did not believe this, and I wish things were better but I know that until this happens we men will be denied our children.
Now when I speak with my male friends, I tell them if their spouse or girlfriend starts even hinting at divorce is to hide everything they can and prepare to literal steal away their children. One friend had his wife kidding about getting divorced.
I told him that he had better start preparing now for if he wanted his kids. He did and I can say that now he has sole custody of his son and daughter but he does allow his ex to see them and spend time with them because he believes that children need both parents.
At least he has intelligence.